By Jan Vicente B. Pekas
(Note: This piece was written right after Christmas.)
The influx of tourists in the city are always a reliable reminder of the coming holidays. And even with Christmas being over, the holiday fever remains in a lot of people. The decorations we put up does not come off until at least late January. And our markets are always full of people rushing to buy food. Though the weather had not been kind to us last week, we have not failed to emit the Christmas spirit. The amount of prayers and aid sent to typhoon Odette victims from both local and foreign governments showed us the true essence of Christmas, giving back to the people.
However, almost a week will still have to pass and many of us are now preparing for another holiday, New Year’s. Food markets are sure to be full of last-minute shoppers and wallets will soon be empty. But as Filipinos, money has never disrupted our joy when we are with family members.
And even if the weather were to be unpleasant on the 31st, the alcoholic beverages would surely suffice in bringing up a good mood all around. Despite the unhealthy amount of food that will be present and the gathering of family members, there will still be one factor of New Year’s that has been gathering anticipation starting as early as October– New Year’s resolutions– promises made to be fulfilled in the coming months. Many would surely make resolutions about making more money. But I assume that because of the circumstances brought about by the pandemic, losing weight would surely be a major promise for many people.
Yet, like mine and those of many others, these resolutions will end up like old papers in the attic, ignored, abandoned and gathering dust. Although the cold climate of January may not be a suitable time to start fulfilling our promises, our resolve is the only one to blame for our inaction. Resolutions made by words and not reinforced by determination to act accordingly are bound to fail. And sometimes, the promises we make on New Year’s Eve are not backed with the intention to fulfill them. As a result, we end up fooling ourselves.
But when there is dark there will surely be light. And just as there are those who could not fulfill their promises, there are people who are more fortunate. However, to fulfill one’s goal cannot be without action and sacrifices. Preparations are needed to be done if we are really serious. Similar to a desire to become a jogger every day, you can’t just suddenly run for an hour straight. Warm ups and gear are essential in running for long hours. But even with the proper equipment and resolve, they are sometimes not enough. With preparation though, even an out of shape person can soon jog every day. By walking first and preparing the body for a few weeks, jogging everyday can be attained.
We all have a year to accomplish our resolutions. With patience, preparations can be properly done. And with our families by our side, our resolve can easily be reinforced. So, by accomplishing our own promises, we can stand to be proud of ourselves. And our words can finally have the same weight as we currently have.**
